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Welcome to High Frequency Living, where we explore the art of elevating your mind, body, and spirit. Here, you'll find insights and practical tips to help you align with your highest potential, raise your vibration, and live a life filled with purpose, clarity, and joy. Whether you're looking to optimize your mindset, enhance your energy, or simply find more balance, this blog is your go-to resource for living life at a higher frequency. Let's tune in, transform, and thrive together.
40. What would you like to see from yourself in 2025?
Are you ready to call in the best version of yourself? Sam and I get really candid about some things we are struggling with and the areas we really want to get a handle on in 2025 to have the best year yet!
39. Protecting your Energy during Holiday Season
Sam and I chat our fallback habits during extended periods of time with family and areas where we can improve. Healthy relationships are possible and so is protecting our energy.
38. Energetic & Chi Mastery with the extraordinary Banya Lim
Banya is a multi-generational healer and an expert in energy medicine and training. With over 30 years of experience in Oriental Medicine, she is passionately dedicated to teaching and guiding others in discovering their life's passions. Banya specializes in awakening the body's inner energy, empowering individuals to achieve their life goals.
Banya has worked directly with Sam and Jaclyn for almost 4 years and has been a truly transformational teacher for them.
37. Our experience with waiting to have children
In this episode, we dive into our journey of waiting to have children, sharing the background story that led us to this decision. We discuss the incredible experience of welcoming our little one into the world and how that has profoundly impacted our lives. While we explore the pros of becoming parents later in life—such as greater stability and maturity—we also candidly address the cons, including the challenges of energy levels and societal expectations. Ultimately, we reflect on how much we love being parents and the joy our child has brought into our lives, making the wait worthwhile.
36. The millionaire next door mindset
In this episode, we’re diving into The Millionaire Next Door Mindset—and trust me, it’s not what you think. Sam and I get real about what it takes to build financial security without falling into the trap of flashy spending or societal pressure. We talk about the small, daily decisions that add up to big results, the power of delayed gratification, and how aligning your financial goals with your life values can create lasting freedom. Plus, we share some personal stories (and lessons learned) along the way. So, are you ready to shift your mindset and take control of your financial future? Let’s get into it!
35. What impact do unspoken expectations have in relationships?
In this episode of The Freq Show, Jaclyn and Sam candidly discuss the challenges that arise from time management in their relationship, particularly regarding something Sam did that encroached on precious family time. Initially annoyed, Jaclyn reflects on Sam's pure intentions to create financial security for their family, leading her to choose a more mature response. They delve into the subconscious scorekeeping that often occurs in their partnership regarding household responsibilities and parenting. Additionally, they explore the dynamics that emerge when their nanny is unavailable and the conflicts that can arise from uncommunicated expectations. They leave listeners with a thought-provoking question: What impact do unspoken expectations have in relationships?
34. How conflict can lead to getting on the same frequency as your partner
In this episode of The Freq Show, Jaclyn and Sam dive into a candid discussion about their recent challenges in both real estate and podcasting. Jaclyn confronts Sam about his approach to securing their next deal, while Sam challenges the effectiveness of the podcast in their busy lives. With playful banter, they humorously call each other "bische," reflecting their strong dynamic as partners in both business and life. Ultimately, they share the valuable insights they gained from their candid conversation and how it has influenced their next steps. Join them as they leave you with a thought-provoking question: What uncomfortable question could lead to greater clarity in your own business.
33. Preparing our Election Day Mindset
In this episode of The Freq Show, Jaclyn and Sam share their perspectives on the upcoming election and the importance of maintaining a positive mindset regardless of the outcome. They express their support for the Trump/Vance ticket while acknowledging the need to remain hopeful and adaptable should the results not align with their preferences. As they reflect on their mindset on election night, they emphasize that opportunity is everywhere, regardless of political circumstances. The conversation shifts to how they plan to move forward with resilience and determination. They leave listeners with an empowering question: Are you putting yourself in a mindset to win no matter what?
32. Healing Your Mind: Transforming Thoughts for Higher Frequency Living
Today, we’re diving into a topic that has the power to completely transform your life: healing your mind by transforming your thoughts. So many of us live with negative or limiting beliefs that hold us back, but what if you could change those thoughts and start living from a higher frequency? Today, Sam and I will share practical tools and exercises to help you shift your mental patterns and begin operating from a place of higher energy. We’re not just talking about positive thinking—we’re talking about real transformation. We’ll also touch on the science behind thought transformation and how healing your mind can lead to emotional and even physical healing.
31. The healing power of Solfeggio Frequencies
In this episode of The Freq Show, Jaclyn explores the transformative power of Solfeggio frequencies and how they can help realign your energy. She dives into the ancient origins of these frequencies, their rediscovery by Dr. Joseph Puleo, and the science behind how sound shapes our reality. Sharing personal experiences from developing The Freq App, Jaclyn guides listeners through the healing potential of frequencies like 528 Hz and offer practical tips for incorporating them into daily life. The episode wraps up with a soothing 528 Hz Calibration, helping listeners experience the healing power of frequency firsthand.
30. Take back your time: Mastering social media boundaries
Today, we’re tackling something that a lot of us struggle with—social media. Let’s be honest, how often do you log in for a ‘quick check’ and end up losing 30 minutes or more? We all know the anxiety, the hollow feeling that comes from too much screen time. But what if we could flip that script? Today, Sam and I are talking about how to take control over your relationship with social media and make it a tool that works for you, not against you. We’re going to share a simple, structured plan to keep your social media time intentional, productive, and purposeful in just 20 minutes a day.
29. What happens after you achieve a big goal?
In this episode of The Freq Show, Jaclyn and Sam dive into the often-overlooked feelings that come after hitting a big goal. They discuss the sense of letdown, self-doubt, and purposelessness that can follow success, and offer insights on how to keep moving forward. With practical tips for staying in a high-frequency mindset and embracing rest and reflection, this episode encourages you to navigate the post-goal void with grace. As always, they close with a thought-provoking question to help you reflect on your own journey.
28. The Antidote to Fear
What would it feel like to live a life without fear? What if part of your purpose in this lifetime is to let go of fear? How would your life be different?
In our world, fear is used as a tool to control us, but in today’s episode, Sam and I are chatting the antidote to fear that we have been utilizing successfully.
27. Letting Go Of The Need For Approval
Having ambition is a great thing. It encourages free thought and action and momentum, but where is the line between healthy ambition and constantly trying to prove yourself? In this episode, Jaclyn shares how she dabbled with letting go of this constant need to prove and how it transformed her approach to life and happiness.
26. Speaking out in times of censorship
The presidential race is on and there is a lot of heated debate happening right now. - And for good reason. Our country has a history of having great debates, but after the advent of social media, it seems people have gotten pretty brave behind the veil of a keyboard. In today’s episode, Sam and I are outlining why it’s important to speak your truth and respond in ways that respect the dignity of someone else’s experience.
25. Is Your Clothing Toxic?
Your skin is your largest organ, so it stands to reason that what we wear daily can positively or negatively impact this vital organ. Could the clothing that makes up the majority of the American wardrobe be making us sick? Let’s find out.
Study source: https://theprettyplaneteer.com/what-are-fast-fashion-clothes-made-of/
24. How To Tune Your Frequency
In Episode 24 of the Freq Show, we'll introduce you to the transformative power of frequency calibration. We're excited to unveil the groundbreaking Freq App, designed to harmonize your energy and mental state through curated messages and frequency music. We'll unpack the science behind the law of vibration and share practical tips to calibrate your daily energy. In the second half, we'll showcase the user-friendly design and multi-platform availability of the Freq App, replacing traditional meditation with intentional frequency tuning. With tailored frequencies for various activities and moods and a free five-day trial, you can seamlessly integrate this tool into your life and start generating the feelings you desire.
23. Internalization - When taking responsibility is a bad thing
Join us as we uncover the powerful concept of internalization and its impact on personal growth. Through our personal experiences, we'll explore the psychological process of internalization and how it can distort our understanding of events. Discover how to share responsibility among multiple factors and individuals to break free from self-imposed barriers and unlock your true potential.
We'll also tackle the emotional toll of professional incompetence and the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries. Learn to recognize what is within your control and how to navigate unfair blame shifts. Tune in for a discussion on overcoming self-blame to foster resilience and personal growth.
22. Getting to the root of anxiety to foster healing
Today we are going to talk about getting to the root of anxiety to foster healing… So often in our society and medical system we treat the symptoms of a problem instead of the root cause, but today, we are going to try and get to the root so real healing can occur and hopefully positively affect the rest of the our lives and bodily systems.
21. Comfort in times of chaos
As if we didn’t think things could get crazier, they have. An assassination attempt on former President Trump, President Biden dropping out of the race, the war in Ukraine, the Olympics, the turmoil happening in Israel and Palestine, censorship being at an all time high - processing world events on top of our busy lives can feel HEAVY. This episode is the antidote to those feelings of chaos so many of us are experiencing right now.